Guestlist

As I was going through my guest list n doing RSVP earlier, it struck me that a wedding can really show how many true friends one has. As I was sending SMSes out, I have friends who offer help. Some Wana be my emcee, some offer to help me do a Blair witch project taking videos during the day. Many agreed to attend readily.

Then it reminds me of 2 "friends" who had their wedding not too long ago. Bride X had invited E n me to be her bridesmaids. Problem is we were not even remotely close to her. We see her once a year through gatherings organized by mutual friends. Heck, she doesn't even have our mobile nbrs n resorted to emailing us through previous gatherings' email threads. Of cos E n I din agree. We thought her 2 "closer friends" will be her bridesmaids n ended up, they weren't. N we learnt through mutual friends that they were similarly been asked to be bridesmaid in the most insincere manner n they, too, rejected.

Bride D had her wedding recently too. Now this gal used to be real close to me. When she was single, that is. Ever since she has a bf, she has long disappeared. N when she broke up with that guy, she came crying back. And the moment she gets a new bf (her current husband), she disappears again for a few years. We work around the same area n see each other quite often. But she always pretends not to see me. I found out by chance she has recently joined my company. But have never heard it from her. Not even a hi SMS/email. Needless to say, when she invited me to her wedding, I declined. N seems like many others declined her cos she posted a low EQ post on fb to lament many ppl gave her lame reasons.

Hahaha. Real funny.