过大礼

Went to buy our 过大礼 items today. Seems like 101 things to do n all sounds senseless to me.



Previously we went to order cakes for 过大礼.


My family needed 12 boxes in all. N W's mum asked for 12 boxes. I learnt from B after I ordered and reconfirmed today with the lady selling the 过大礼 items that the cakes are meant for brides. Not groom's family.

W got fed up with his mum n called her to ask who told her that the groom needed it. Ended up his mum din know n wanted for the sake of wanting. So she may share with her colleagues. This got W real mad. It's like dunno then dun act like u know. N worst part make us do everything ur way. Do for the sake of doing without knowing why. It makes me real unhappy.

If u can gimme a good reason for doing things a certain way, I will do it. But dun dictate n dictate all the wrong things. Not only waste $, waste time, waste energy, also causes so much friction between us. Damn it.